Dear Girls (from us guys)…
*Don’t assume that guys won’t care where you are, because we do. It makes us feel secure to know that our girlfriends aren’t off flirting with guys we’ve never heard of. *Also, don’t talk about your ex-boyfriends. We never have, nor ever will respect or like them, nor do we want to hear about them. When you do, you’re asking your boyfriend to be jealous. You’re asking your boyfriend to lose trust. *On that, don’t hump everything that walks into the room. We don’t care if you talk to other guys. We don’t care if you’re friends with other guys. But when you’re sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn’t help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we’re still there. *Also, when we tell you you’re pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it. Don’t tell us we’re wrong. We’ll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. *Don’t be mad when we hold the door open. Smile and say “thank you.” Let us pay for you. Don’t “feel bad.” We enjoy doing it. It’s expected. Smile and say - everybody together now - “thank you.” *Kiss us when no one’s watching. If you kiss us when you know nobody’s looking we’ll be more impressed. *You don’t have to get dressed up for us. If we’re going out with you in the first place, you don’t have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are. *Don’t flirt with guys when we’re not around. We’ll find out. Trust us. We have eyes everywhere. And when we find out, we’re pissed. Not necessarily with the guys you flirted with, more-so with you. *Don’t take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don’t get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. *Don’t talk about how hot Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt is in front of us. It’s boring, and we don’t care. You have girlfriends for that. *Whatever happened to the word “handsome”? Why does everything have to be “hot/sexy”? I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with “Hey handsome!” instead of “Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy” or whatever else you can think of. Claiming girls or guys to be “hot” shows immaturity. **Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren’t being treated right by a guy, don’t wait for him to change. Ditch his sorry, disgrace-to-the-male-population ass, and find someone who will treat you with utter respect. Someone who will honor your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you’re at your lowest.
my mom birthday gift
My Miracle MotherMom, I look at youand see a walking miracle.
Your unfailing love without limit,
your ability to soothe my every hurt,
the way you are on duty, unselfishly,
every hour, every day,
makes me so grateful
that I am yours, and you are mine.
With open arms and open heart,
with enduring patience and inner strength,
you gave so much for me,
sometimes at your expense.
You are my teacher,
my comforter, my encourager,
appreciating all, forgiving all.
Sometimes I took you for granted, Mom,
but I don’t now, and I never will again.
I know that everything I am today
relates to you and your loving care.
I gaze in wonder
as I watch you being you—
my miracle, my mother.By Joanna Fuchs
im happy my favorite hip-hop group is back…and im waiting on the album …..dipset when its reppin time……owwwwwwwww im proud of them boys diplomats baby…
back to the money…..
Relationships of all kinds are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold on to some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.
There will come a time in your life when you will become infatuated with a single soul. For this person you’d do anything and not think twice about it, but when asked why … you have no answer. You’ll try your whole life to understand how a single person can affect you as much as they do, but you’ll never find out. And no matter how badly you hate it or how badly it hurts … you’ll love this person without regret, for the rest of your life
When I first met you
You reached out to shake my hand
When I got to know you
You reached out to understand my mind
When I liked you, you reached out and touched my heart..
When I loved you, you reached out and touched my soul…
When I thought I had nothing
I had everything when I had you…
If we’re meant to be togther
Let it be…
If fate wants us to be forever
Let’s wait and see…
I’m a guy….. who can wrestle with you and let you win…. who i can talk to about anything… who laughs at your jokes…. who puts your cold hands in my warm hoodie pockets…. who lets you use my sweatshirt for a pillow…. who says i love you & means it…. who will kiss you in the rain, in the sunshine, and in the snow…. whos calls unexpectedly…. who will have many inside jokes with you and remember each one…. a guy who notices haircuts…. who realizes that you say things but dont always mean them…. who you can go swimming with on hot days…. who can tell you my problems and let you help…. who will listen to you talk… who will bring you seashells from the beach…. who will let you beat me up when you get angry…. who writes love letters to you, but doesnt send them…. who draws pictures and slips them gently into your locker slot…. who saves my genuine, big smiles for you…. with deeps eyes, that can see through faces into depths…. who wears baseball hats and lets your wear mine too. … who gives you my t-shirt to change into and not expect to get it back…. who knows your favorite color, song, car, vegetable, perfume and the color of your toothbrush…. who will shake your dads hand and look your mom in the eye…. who will call you by your full name—first, middle and last…. who willl know when something is wrong when you’re trying your best to put on an act… who will kiss you and tell you you’re beautiful…. who will let you cry to me…. who will hold you & kiss your cheek…. who suprises you and compliments and plays with your hair…. who will brag about you to all of my friends…who will not tell his friends about intimate stuff we did… not afraid to give you a great big hug right infront of my mom… who smells like i just stepped out of the shower…. who will cut his hair when i know it looks bad… who wears cologne that you can subtly smell when you’re leaning on my shoulder…. who will not try to meet up with other girls if i know you’ll get jealous…who tells you that you have a nice laugh and a smile that lights up the room and simply be yours to hold.
Eminem Crushes The Competition w/ Recovery Sales ‘753,870’
— what is love ? —
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within
your chest??
-it isn`t love, it`s like.
You can`t keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right??
-it isn`t love, it`s lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
- it isn`t love, it`s pride.
Do you want them because you know they`re there??
-it isn`t love, it`s loneliness.
Are you there because it`s what everyone wants??
-it isn`t love, it`s loyalty.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand??
-it isn`t love, it`s low confidence.
Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don`t want to hurt
them??
-it isn`t love, it`s pity.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat??
-it isn`t love, it`s infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them??
-it isn`t love, it`s friendship.
Do you tell them every day that they are the only one you think of??
-it isn`t love, it`s a lie.
Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake??
-it isn`t love, it`s charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they`re sad??
-then it`s l o v e.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they`re strong??
-then it`s l o v e.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts??
-then it`s l o v e.
Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and
relation pulls you close and holds you there??
-then it`s l o v e.
Do you accept their faults because they`re a part of who they are??
-then it`s l o v e.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret??
-then it`s l o v e.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death??
- Nicole Tran
Asterix and Obelix
when i was a kid, Asterix and Obelix was my favorite cartoon still is i watch it all the time ,crazy thing is when im having a bad day , when im stressed/depressed i watch Asterix and Obelix and it help me …make me feel like im 5 all over again…..i wanna be forever young!!!!happy 50 years
throw back video of the day
R. Kelly - I Wish

